Infertility

Transparent but Vague: A Mantra to Get You Through the Holidays

Mantras, Mantras, Mantras…a great way to help you get through tough stuff. Holidays are hard for everyone for many different reasons. Who couldn’t use some additional coping skills for their toolbox?

What to Expect When You're Not Expecting

Have you ever thought about what it's like to go through infertility until you're facing infertility?  Probably not, unless you have someone close to you that went through it too.  Either way, it's hard to know what to expect from this experience.  This post explores some of this common issues that people are faced with on their infertility journey.  Things will play out differently for everyone, but this will give you an overview of what you may encounter along the way. 

Infertility Talk: How to Deal with an "Existentialist"

Continuing the series, this week I talk about the third type of responder-the "existentialist".  The existentialist is the everything happens for a reason kind of person, helpful in many ways, hurtful in others.  I have some concrete strategies for how to deal with an existentialist and help them meet you where you are, as well as honor your feelings at the present time. 

Infertility Talk: How to Deal with a Minimizer

"At least you are able to spend time together as a couple now before you have kids."  This comment has been repeated over and over to people going through infertility, as well as "it's going to be ok" "it'll work out, just relax."  In this post I discuss my second type of well-intentioned but a little off base responder: the "minimizer".  I share what minimizing does, how these people are trying to help, and strategies for how to deal with them. 

How to #StartAsking About Infertility

It's National Infertility Awareness Week and the theme is "Start Asking".  I hope to increase awareness of issues faced by the infertility community, but also would like to help those who find themselves in a supportive role learn how to start asking the right questions and begin having meaningful conversations around this painful topic.  Read here to learn more.  

Infertility during Valentine's Day: Making it Less about Sex and More about Connection

Valentine's Day may be focused on sex, but if you're going through infertility sex is the last thing you want to do on your holiday.  In my post, I offer some practical ideas for how to take the pressure off of making V-Day about sex at the end of the evening, and more about the true intention, which is reconnecting with your partner and increasing your intimacy. 

6 Strategies for Dealing with Infertility During the Holidays

If you're going through infertility, the holidays will likely be a challenging time.  You may not even be aware of your emotions or the potential to be put in uncomfortable and stressful situations over the course of the season.  Here I discuss 6 strategies for getting through the holidays, using your support systems, and enjoying your time with your partner. 

Face Your Fears: Coming Out of the Infertility Closet

Is the fear of failure of judgment holding you back from sharing your struggles with infertility?  Do you find that you are isolating yourself and cutting off social relationships?  It's National Face your Fears Day, and time to reach out for support in your infertility journey.